Therapy Shorts 52: Codependency Is All About Control And It Took Me Years to Come Out of Denial

Codependency often looks like kindness, but underneath it lies quiet, anxious control. In this piece, I explore how fear drives fixing, rescuing, and over-functioning and why reclaiming individuality is the true path to healing. If you’ve ever lost yourself in relationships, this will resonate deeply.

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Codependents: Stop Waiting and Start Owning Your Life. Your Narcissist Partner Won’t Save You From Yourself.

Codependents are drawn to the very people who they believe need fixing and are the worst possible partner for them. The narcissistic, the avoidant and the emotionally unavailable. This continues the “repetition compulsion” pattern of their childhood but also protects them from their own vulnerability.

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Therapy Shorts 8: Embrace Aloneness

Discover "Therapy Shorts," a collection of quick insights and gentle nudges to help you along your healing journey. This week is about Aloneness. These posts, published twice per week with a short audio, provide bite-sized wisdom to help you grow and discover yourself. Join me as we investigate the small ways we can bring peace, clarity, and connection into our lives.

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Therapy Shorts 6: Embrace Individuality in your Relationship

Discover "Therapy Shorts," a collection of quick insights and gentle nudges to help you along your healing journey. This week is about Individuality. These posts, published twice per week with a short audio, provide bite-sized wisdom to help you grow and discover yourself. Join me as we investigate the small ways we can bring peace, clarity, and connection into our lives.

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Therapy Shorts 5: Balancing Individuality and Purpose in Relationships

Discover "Therapy Shorts," a collection of quick insights and gentle nudges to help you along your healing journey. This week is about Individuality. These posts, published twice per week with a short audio, provide bite-sized wisdom to help you grow and discover yourself. Join me as we investigate the small ways we can bring peace, clarity, and connection into our lives.

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