How To Be You In 2021 And Forget The Old

(The audio version of this post is available) It would have been very easy to write another post about the pandemic, still the most troubling aspect of our lives at present. While, with some luck, we might be rid of it sometime in 2021...

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Conflict Management Is A Foundation of Love

It is my own personal experience, and that of clients, that whoever you choose to have a relationship with, there will be conflict and a lot of it. The paradox to our usual thinking is that the more intense and close a relationship is...

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Codependency: A Case Of Repetition Compulsion?

Codependents often exhibit a certain behavior in adult relationships, often moving from one to the next in a "copy and paste" scenario. Given the symptoms of codependency generally, these relationships…

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Narcissist Abuse: Being Hooked By The Illusion

You are swept away in a tide of emotional abandon with a seemingly like-minded person who only has your interests at heart. You fall in love fully and completely, you drop your boundaries and do not listen to your instincts that might hold some warning signs...

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