Couples Therapy: Two Case Studies
Therapy as a couple is hard and there are few guarantees. Many factors determine success or failure...
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Couples Therapy: Two Case Studies
Couples Therapy: A Therapist’s View
In actuality, couples often come to therapy far too late. Often, by the time the first session takes place, the rot has already set in and in some case...
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Couples Therapy: A Therapist’s View
Fantasy Will Keep The Worst Of Relationships Going
How many of us have been in relationships we just know are going nowhere but we hang on untill the bitter end?...
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Fantasy Will Keep The Worst Of Relationships Going
Think Team Relationship in Conflict
Anyone who tells you that conflict does not happen in their relationship probably lives alone! Conflict is an inevitable consequence of two human beings coming together to attempt to form a relationship...
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Think Team Relationship in Conflict
There Has Never Been A Better Time To Be A Violent, Controlling Abuser
If you are a violent, controlling narcissistic psychopath who controls every aspect of your partner's life with a fist of iron...
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There Has Never Been A Better Time To Be A Violent, Controlling Abuser
Lockdown Is Having A Huge Impact On Rates Of Domestic Violence
For many people under lockdown in different countries, it is an inconvenience to our normal lives but one that contributes to the "greater good". We all know that at some…
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Lockdown Is Having A Huge Impact On Rates Of Domestic Violence
Making Sure Your Relationships Survive In These Trying Times
There has already been much written about how to survive the current crisis. Advice is everywhere from how to exercise and eat properly to how to stave off boredom and deal with shortages...
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Making Sure Your Relationships Survive In These Trying Times
Self-Isolation For The Anxious
The Coronavirus is here and it's becoming increasingly scary. From 12pm today, I along with the rest of the population in the country I live in, will only be allowed outside...
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Self-Isolation For The Anxious
Narcissists And “Magical Thinking”: An Avoidance Of Shame
Narcissists avoid shame at all costs. It is their nemesis or "kryptonite", if you want to see it that way. It's not clear where the roots of narcissism start but generally held opinions point...
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Narcissists And “Magical Thinking”: An Avoidance Of Shame
Relationship Success Can Be Gauged By Looking At Attachment Styles
Anyone who has been in a long term relationship will testify to how it changes over time. There is the initial “falling in love” phase described earlier where there is more sex...
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Relationship Success Can Be Gauged By Looking At Attachment Styles