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The Three Stages of Narcissist Relationships: A Roller-Coaster Ride

Narcissists are the archetypal Jekyll and Hyde characters, one way one moment, one way the next...

Codependency? Control Not Love

These days we throw the words "narcissist" and "codependent" around like confetti. It is easy to label someone who appears self-centred as the former and one who gives a little bit too much as the latter.

What Is Inner Child Therapy?

I have always held a keen interest in Inner Child Therapy and incorporate it into my work with clients as much as possible...

How Childhood Abuse Can Subdue The Inner Child

When we think about child abuse, our thoughts often stop at sexual abuse of minors. However, the term child abuse...

The Boundaries In Therapy Need To be Maintained

Just where are the boundaries between therapist and client? What can you expect your therapist to divulge about himself and his view on the world? This is often one of the confusing aspects of therapy for many clients...

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If you enjoy reading the varied articles on my blog The Online Therapist, you will be excited to know that it is now available as an app for both Android and Apple. Please go to the links below to download...

What Does Porn Addiction Do To A Relationship?

Porn has a bad reputation and is often seen as somebody's dirty little secret. The stereotype of the typical porn viewer is a single white male who watches late at night...

After Covid, Therapy and Therapists Need To Face A New World

I recently read an article in the New Yorker that highlighted the difficulty some psychotherapists are having during the lockdown. With clients not coming to their offices...

Test Your Assumptions: Guess What? They Might Be Wrong!

We all do it. Something happens, we find ourselves in a situation where an assumption jumps up...

The Way We See The Problem, Often Is The Problem

I always remember the quote " Life is about the choices you make. If you want a better life, make different choices"...