In a Sexless Marriage or Relationship?

According to most observers, sex is a crucial aspect of marriage, and it is one of the primary ways that couples express intimacy and love.

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On the Subject of Self-esteem

The root of this problem can often be traced back to our formative years, a time when our primary caregivers play an influential role in shaping our self-esteem.

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Insights from Group Therapy for Codependency

Are you interested in joining the next round of Online Group Therapy For Codependency?

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How I came to believe in the Plural Mind in 1975

I was thirteen in 1975. It was a hot summer that year and we had a heatwave and a drought.

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The Simple Solutions Are Often The Most Difficult

Our mind is a great thing and we can often feel it controls us with its thoughts and meanderings. We often comment on how things came up “out of the blue” and we don’t know where that thought came from.

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Repost: A Real Life Case Of Examining Thinking

We can often remember the feelings around significant events that have shaped our thinking more than the events themselves. These feelings leave an imprint on us that we take forward into our adulthood and subsequent relationships.

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Relationships: The Importance Of Being Able To Listen

It might be difficult when parts of you are screaming at you to defend yourself, while another set is telling you to escape.

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What Is It Really Like To Live With A Narcissist (Diagnosed): A True Story

This is her account, mostly a summary of journals and notes she made during the relationship. Names are not used and places have been changed as per her request.

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The Path To Freedom: Living The 8 C’s

Mistakes, luckily for me, have always brought with them a chance to learn something about myself and the way I operate.

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Codependency: Egoism Or Altruism?

Anyone who has codependent traits need to test their motives continually as to why they are doing what they do. Many don’t and continue to live with the idea that they are being slighted and victimized.

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