Perfectionism Is Truly Driven By Self Defeating Thoughts
Samuel McChord Crothers once wrote ” try as hard as we may for perfection, the net result of our labours is an amazing variety of imperfectness. We are surprised at…
Category: PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS
Have a Strategy For Online Dating
Online dating has been the preferred method of finding a partner for many people for many years. A lot of people have had success and many will testify to the…
Partner in a Life Transition? What You Should And Shouldn’t Be Doing.
Life never quite works out the way we expect. Someone once said to me that if you really knew what awaited us in the future, we would be totally shocked.…
Change The Way You Think And That Is All You Will Do!
The main message that comes from the self-help industry is “change the way you think, change your life”. While I see this as a mostly effective message, I think it…
Cheating: What People Really Think
Just recently, infidelity in marriages has been a big topic with some of my clients. It has happened and they are struggling with the aftermath of it. Some have separated,…
Six Things You Must Have in Your Relationship
I have written many times here {as well as telling my clients} that the basis of any relationship is trust, honesty, respect and the mutual meeting of each other’s needs.…
The Fear Factor
The old saying goes “Life is about choices. If you don’t like your life, make better choices”. This is totally correct. We make choices about most of the things that…
Living In A Dangerous World
We are living in difficult times. The recent spate of terror attacks worldwide (and recently in France) is extremely worrying. Despite high security at airports and at high profile events,…